The week got a little crazier as we went. Wednesday night I was wiped out. I got a nice break the next night, however, going on a date with my hubby. Today I'm trying to finish up preparations for a party tonight.
I didn't realize how much difference it makes to have a couple hours each day with no kids at home. The house looks pretty terrible today. Thankfully the aforementioned party is not at my house.
I think PJ5 said something about school yesterday. I believe he misses it.
I've got to get the cat "fixed" soon. She kept escaping this week whenever the boys would go in or out the back door.
I have enjoyed spending more time with the boys, and going with them on some adventures this week. I will enjoy a little peace and quiet on Monday morning.
3.18.2011
3.15.2011
Change of plans
Well, the trip to the mountains fell through the cracks, so to speak. The other two families are experiencing enough sickness that the prospect of being outdoors (in the wind) all that time was not appealing. So instead, we are going to eat lunch together today. Later I am going to pick up the teenager-helpers I mentioned and take the boys to a big park to play. It doesn't bother me at all.
Changing plans doesn't bother me as much as it used to several years ago. Having kids, and especially kids with special needs, has made me very flexible. And that's a very good thing, believe me. Like having to change an article of clothing because a diaper leaks onto it (which I just did). Like trying to potty-train a six-year-old only to discover that he doesn't have the necessary bodily awareness/control yet. Like going to a graduation or wedding ceremony knowing that we may have to take turns taking the kids out, so that neither one of us will actually get to see the whole thing. And with the option of one of us taking the kids home while the other one stays for the reception. Yep, we are flexible
But I so much like having a plan in place, even if I'm prepared with an option B or C. One of the areas I've always struggled with in my relationship with God is in waiting for Him to reveal His plan. I know He has a plan. But I want to see it all laid out; not this one-step-at-a-time thing that requires so much faith. So what often happens is I have my plan in mind, and then God comes along and works something different and changes my plan.
I know it would be better if I waited on Him in the first place, and sometimes I do. But sometimes I don't. And sometimes it's hard to let go of those plans you made. I mean, you even have an option B, right? But God comes in with something copmletely different. The beauty, though, is that He always gives the grace and strength to help you through the plan He has laid out. Even if all you see is the one step ahead of you that has to be done first.
Changing plans doesn't bother me as much as it used to several years ago. Having kids, and especially kids with special needs, has made me very flexible. And that's a very good thing, believe me. Like having to change an article of clothing because a diaper leaks onto it (which I just did). Like trying to potty-train a six-year-old only to discover that he doesn't have the necessary bodily awareness/control yet. Like going to a graduation or wedding ceremony knowing that we may have to take turns taking the kids out, so that neither one of us will actually get to see the whole thing. And with the option of one of us taking the kids home while the other one stays for the reception. Yep, we are flexible
But I so much like having a plan in place, even if I'm prepared with an option B or C. One of the areas I've always struggled with in my relationship with God is in waiting for Him to reveal His plan. I know He has a plan. But I want to see it all laid out; not this one-step-at-a-time thing that requires so much faith. So what often happens is I have my plan in mind, and then God comes along and works something different and changes my plan.
I know it would be better if I waited on Him in the first place, and sometimes I do. But sometimes I don't. And sometimes it's hard to let go of those plans you made. I mean, you even have an option B, right? But God comes in with something copmletely different. The beauty, though, is that He always gives the grace and strength to help you through the plan He has laid out. Even if all you see is the one step ahead of you that has to be done first.
3.14.2011
Spring Break
...is not a break for moms!
I can't let everyone sleep in (though I would like too, since we lost an hour this weekend) because then our schedules would get really off, and next week would be horrible.
Today, we are staying at home and just chilling. Mainly because it's cool and rainy outside, so our choices are limited. I'm hoping to get some laundry done, finish preparing for Bible Study tomorrow night, and keep us all from going stir-crazy.
Tomorrow, we are venturing to the mountains (that are really just hills) with two other moms and their kids. Three moms and eight kids....yes. I'm planning to take along a teenage helper or two, to help keep track of my boys, so we don't have a repeat of what happened in CO last year. Then I have to be back in town and ready to lead Bible Study in the evening.
The next day we are going to the local zoo, meeting up with my folks and my sister and her kids. I don't have definite plans for the rest of the week, but it's supposed to be nice, so we'll probably be visiting parks, playing in the back yard, etc.
Somewhere in there I need to finish plans for a party that takes place in five days!
No, I don't think this will be a relaxing week.
I can't let everyone sleep in (though I would like too, since we lost an hour this weekend) because then our schedules would get really off, and next week would be horrible.
Today, we are staying at home and just chilling. Mainly because it's cool and rainy outside, so our choices are limited. I'm hoping to get some laundry done, finish preparing for Bible Study tomorrow night, and keep us all from going stir-crazy.
Tomorrow, we are venturing to the mountains (that are really just hills) with two other moms and their kids. Three moms and eight kids....yes. I'm planning to take along a teenage helper or two, to help keep track of my boys, so we don't have a repeat of what happened in CO last year. Then I have to be back in town and ready to lead Bible Study in the evening.
The next day we are going to the local zoo, meeting up with my folks and my sister and her kids. I don't have definite plans for the rest of the week, but it's supposed to be nice, so we'll probably be visiting parks, playing in the back yard, etc.
Somewhere in there I need to finish plans for a party that takes place in five days!
No, I don't think this will be a relaxing week.
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